Start... Simple:
I have been reflecting on the last year with Hemi, while I see some improvement I struggle with not seeing enough. I am looking at the 100 things we need to improve on, instead of focusing on the 1 or 2 things we did improve on. It has been a real roller coaster ride for me. I see improvement in class -excited, I go to a trial - and I come back with the 100 things again. This roller coaster ride started to put me in analysis paralysis - I froze - like a fear of going on a roller coaster - I froze and tended to shy away from trialing...feeling so bogged down, that I had lost enthusiasm in training. So, I am going to Start Simple. Go back to the basics, work on basic understanding and foundation skills, build some new confidence in both of us - as a team. Learn what she needs from me - learn what skills need sharpening. But let's revisit the subject of confidence...Confidence and Con-FIDO-ence
I had posted a blog last year with the title above, and had to go back and reread it. At that time I was thinking of confidence in Hemi was just her over all demeanor - with new environments and new people. During many of her lessons on my on-line class [Handling 360] - Susan Garret talks about building the dog's confidence, using building blocks, start with flat-work, train it, practice it, proof it, but most of all the dog should be so enthusiastic, that they approach it at 'squirrel speed'. It is all just trick training... it is all about reinforcing what you want - and you don't move on until they are confident in the flat-work, confident in what their job is... then you stack on the next building block. This approach has done amazing things for me and Hemi in the last couple of months. Going back to the basics, back to 101 - restarting some of the flat-work has brought back some of the excitement of training, like having a new puppy. She is such a willing partner - I am learning to laugh at mistakes again, but most of all this has brought back the troubleshooter, the trainer in me. I am enjoying the thought processes - of how to get that---"I want it"---enthusiasm from Hemi, enjoying watching the wheels turn in Hemi's brain, and that ah-ha moment when she gets it - and even more so, enjoying the light-bulb moments for me when I finally figure out how to shape and reinforce what I wanted from her!
Confidence? - Yes - I would say we are BOTH gaining it.
Every day, I can honestly say - I am thankful for this journey - and everyday I am amazed that I am more thankful today than I was yesterday for this incredible journey.
Yesterday is past, tomorrow is not yet here, so today I am thankful for friends and family who support me, three loving dogs and for today's journey.
